1 When your wife says she has headache,she may be saying that you're neglecting her. Do not give her an aspirin.The medicine required IS FLOWERS!!
2 Spend more time in taking care of your sons and daughters and converting them into assets-even if both are liabilities to start with!
3 Life has become very complicated and please don't make it worse by neglecting or overprotecting for your children.
4 The chemistry of each child, like a customer or a client, is so different that it is not funny. Be creative!
5 "Successful parents normally do not havesuccessful children", prove it wrong and let it be a challenge to you.
6 Put yourself in your children's shoes. Let them be known on their own and not as your children. Give them opportunities to achieve small, successes. Don't push them. Do not insult them. By Comparisons.7 Catch them doing something right. Most of us parents ignore such opportunities and get obsessed with marks in schools and colleges. Teach them selflessness.8 Proverbs contain distilled wisdom of all ages! Your sons and daughters won't have to invent their own wheels. Books will give them a head start and that is important. Encourage them to read NON-FICTION.9 Use creativity when you want your children to get into the habit of creativity.10 Skipping college life may be a smart thing but not a wise one.11 Why do we want our children to grow so fast that they regret it when they look back? Some parents send their three year old children to schools and put so many anxieties on them that they get ulcers!12 Education is when your children can play with their grandparents, their uncles, their friends, and so on.13 Help your children to take and make decisions. Educate them with example and stories.14 Let your children spend a few days in a joint-family system,a few days in a family where both husband and wife work, a few days in a big city, a few days in a small town, and a few days on a farm and in a village. That is also education.15 Do things to make your children proud of you and don't be a preacher but be a doer.16 Try to be as honest and truthful and as possible. Even if your wife and your children laugh at you, it is only outwardly. Inside they will be proud of you.17 As parents, do not forget, you are leaders for your sons and daughters! On leadership, remember: "Don't Push: PULL."18 Whether your sons and daughters become assets or liabilities, 70 percent depends upon you and 30 percent on luck.19 Don't be afraid to ask dumb questions; they're more easily handled than dumb mistakes.20 First rent a new house to your enemy, then to a relative yourself, and only then live in it yourself.21 The road to success is filled with women pushing their husbands along.22 A joint family can create more problems. Partnerships are made to be broken. So do not take relationships for granted.23 Don't dwell too long on the shortcomings of others. Sure, your husbands has faults. If he had been a saint, he would had never married you. Right?24 The only way to live in this world is for every man to have a fair-sized cemetery to bury the faults of others.25 If your wife is your sleeping partner in business, please wake her up. It will benefit you both tremendously!26 The best thing to spend on your children is your time.27 Give your son a fish....he eats today. Teach him how to fish......he eats every day!28 A gem cannot be polished without friction nor a son without trials.29 If you keep the book too close to your eyes you can only strain your eyes and not read the book. Distance is required, also, between father and son for the son to grow worldly-wise.30 The opportunity for doing mischief is found a hundred times a day, and of doing good, once in a year.31 Life is an echo. What you send out, you get back. What you give, you get.32 Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.33 It's impossible to influence someone else for the good and give them a boost without gaining a benefit YOURSELF.34 You get the best out of others when you give the best of yourself.35 People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care- about them.36 Personal relationships are the fertile soil from which all advancement, all success, all achievement in real life grows. - Ben Stein37 Be a good-finder- look for the good in others.38 You do affect others either for good or for bad-positively or negatively.39 You can only see in others what is inside of you.40 People pay more attention to what you do than WHAT YOU SAY!!41 Before we can properly handle a problem, we must know all of the problem.42 A lot of people have gone further than they thought they could because someone else thought they could.43 There is no such thing as a self-made man. You will reach your goals only with the help of others.44 How many marriages would be better if the husband and the wife clearly understood that they're on the same side?45 The more you "pass on" to others, the more you keep for yourself.46 There is no limit to what can be accomplished when no one cares who gets the credit. - John Wooden, NCAA coach47 The best thing about giving of ourselves is that what we get is always better than what we give. The reaction is greater than an action.48 The best portion of a good life is the little nameless, unremembered acts of kindness and of love. - William Wordsworth49 Appreciative words are the most powerful force for good on earth. - George W. Crane50 The greatest good we can do for others is not to share our riches with them, but to reveal theirs.